Life's Lesson

Men who lie


So i was deployed from dec 2009-Oct 2010.  Was an alright deployment learned alot. the one thing i learned is that the Army is a whole different place. Privates have no discipline or respect. and most of the people who deploy dont do it b/c they want to serve but b/c they want promoted, their ulterior motive in going. alot of lies on this deployment as well.

I meet this guy Lance McCormick he was alright, he seemed like he was a good guy, i didnt start saying i love you or talk about having feelings or wanting a future, and i never asked him nor did i expect it from him. This was Iraq and it is what it is. but he started with the i love you and talking about being married, first thought he was dumb and crazy, why would he do that after only talking for a couple of month on email then meeting, Seemed weird, but whatever.  In hindsight i knew he was married, but when i asked he denied everything,  even when i asked about the ring on his RIGHT hand he said it was for his dead wife from kuwait, he had trained a Kuwait prince and married his sister, and would get upset b/c i would make side remarks during conversations about how his wife should do this or that.

I would find things that showed otherwise that he was not only married, but having relationships with other women. One was Victoria Bressner, she is older like almost 50 and sends him love letters and sex toys. He got mad when i asked about her, and he did not have explanation just that they were friends. hmm what kind of friend is that? the other lady is Fatima she would send him txt msgs his lie for her was that she was is dead wife's sister. hmm well she is the wife and it was just another lie.

I learned everything that came out of his mouth was a lie, He even claims to be a Special Forces Ranger Sniper . His last unit he has posted his 505th 3rd Brigade HHC Fayetteville, NC according to Wikipedia the unit was reorganized in 1942 and why put Fayetteville Nc when did the army put units outside of the post?.. but he cant show you anything but a couple of scars. One time i said i would like to see you in class A's b/c you would look sharp, hmm he looked scared. hmm i thought why look so scared if he did all that he said he did? 

He also claims he use to run Blackwater for 4 years....hmm if he knew all and any Blackwater associates were kicked out of Iraq no matter what connections you had.

And in the end, my jealousy was founded true. Lance McCormick is married with multiple women.

Victoria Bressner (longtime g/f) Illinois
 Fatima (kuwait wife) 

Dana M. Ellis (g/f wife?) Florida.

Amy Hubbard (wife?) High Point NC

those are the ones that are known of. there are probably more. Lance is weak is fear of being alone is his weakness, but will use it to keep his "toys". and really that is all anyone is to him is a toy how can he play with you to get what he wants. He does not LOVE anyone but himself, he cant even love his children enough to not want to cheat or lie
He has defaced his ex wives, by calling them cheating whores, when in reality Lance is the cheating whore.

Ironic. How he will turn everything around him into a lie, but it will be part of what he is really going thru. He used his wife as his daughter told me all about what "his daughter" was doing in reality he was telling me about his wife.
He is the one that needs help. I have claimed my faults, now he should answer to his.


Some think I am doing this because I am the woman scorned. Because he said he was going to marry me and then turns out he was already married.  or  I am doing this to get back at him.......


Hmmmm No when he asked me to marry him in Iraq, I stopped to think, What if this is real, What if there was a future with this guy. Did some part of me wish for it?   Yes maybe in some sense i did, Maybe in some sense i was i hoping i was paranoid and he was who he said he was.  But knowing what i found and what he was doing. Hmm that part of me shut up real quick and just left.


Hard to know that I could have been the 5th wife of this dude. But seeing how he treated the ones that he was married to, there was no way in hell i was going to be the 5th.  He will marry you and then abandon you. He will move on to someone else.  That is a con artist and scammer. He wont take your money, he just takes your soul leave you wondering why you deserved to be treated so bad.  He will lie about his prior relationships, How every single of them have cheated on him and how they all did him wrong. But in the end he was the one doing them wrong. Cheating on them, lying about who they were,  just so the next woman will feel bad for him.